My breast cancer motivated me to write the book "Making the Breast of It" with a subtitle "Overcoming Fear of Intimacy after
Mastectomy".
The reason I wrote this book was to inspire, empower, encourage, to-give hope and heal the many wounds that breast cancer survivors
experience in various aspects of their lives.
Losing a breast is the most traumatic and fearsome experience a woman can face. Breasts for women are one of
the symbolic of their womanhood, and when it's taken away from them, they don't feel a whole women anymore. The biggest fear is how men would react towards
them after mastectomy. This fear is only on the psychological level, because women are as viable sexual being as before. They are whole women in every aspect.
Unfortunately, many men feel that women with breast cancer or mastectomy are not women anymore. This notion about women from the men point of view is totally
false. These men are usually misinformed or have misconception about this issue.
Fortunately, not all men live with this misconception about women, and
many of them are very supportive and have great understanding of the issue.
Women with breast cancer can be as sexual and intimate with men as before
they had to face this dreaded disease.
I feel that, it is our task as women who experienced this issue to educate those men about our condition.
So,
let's roll up our sleeves and get to work of educating men!
With all my Love and Laughter,
Lea Yekutiel
