Breast cancer is one disease that millions of women in the world have suffered. Although many have died, many have likewise survived. Some
have continued to live happy, normal lives. These are women who have received breast cancer support.
A study was made between women who just had
breast cancer surgery. One group regularly attended small meetings on issues related to health and treatment, the other group didn't. Results showed that women
who attended the small group meetings had improvements in their stress and anxiety levels as well as resistance to disease. No such improvement was seen with the
other group. This shows the relevance of support in breast cancer treatment. Here are some sources of breast cancer support.
Your family
The family
is the core of your support group. They are the people you live with, people who will always be there no matter what happens. It is important to have a loving and
compassionate family especially during and right after treatment, when symptom relief is a major concern. Use this as an opportunity to have quality time with them.
They can also join online support groups among family members of breast cancer patients, where they can get tips and share their experiences as well.
Your
doctor
Your doctor does not only provide for your medical needs. Part of his job is to talk to you and let you understand your diagnosis as well as your
treatment options. It is also important for him to be sensitive to your emotions, as this can be a rather emotional experience. This explains the need to have someone
whom you have confidence in. Choose a doctor whom you are at ease with, who can tell you the options and consequences, and help you deal with them. Be open
to him. Tell him what your apprehensions are prior to starting any form of treatment.
Your friends
These are people whom you've shared your life with,
one time or another. It is never too late to reconnect with old friends. Some will reach out and ask how you are. You shouldn't shun them. Instead, appreciate their
gestures, no matter how small they may be. It can be an inspiring text message, an email, a bunch of flowers, or a short visit. Learn to make amends with people
whom you've had conflicts with in the past. You will be amazed on how light and liberating you will feel afterwards. Friends may never know or understand what
you're going through, but it helps to know that they're on your side in this crusade.
Your local support group
This is one substantial source of support
because these people are breast cancer survivors themselves. You can learn from their experiences, the little battles of everyday life that they fight. Share ideas and
tips with them. Build new friendships. Be a blessing to others, as you have been blessed and inspired by them.
Your online support group
For those
who live in areas where there is no local breast cancer support group, joining an online support group is a good alternative. This is also ideal for those who are too
shy to open up personally or find it inconvenient to go out and attend their meetings. Some find it more effective to put their thoughts and feelings into writing. You
can post messages or start your own blog. Maintaining an online journal is a fun way to take note of your everyday experiences. In a way, it will help you monitor your
health as well as emotional progress.
There are many other sources of support. Anything that lifts your spirit or motivates and encourages you is a source of
support. It can be a book, magazine or video. It can be as simple as a nice song or a beautiful sunset. Anyone and anything can be a source of support and
inspiration, if you choose to see them that way.
Women who have fought, and won, against cancer didn't do it alone. There was always the support of
people around them. You do not have to be alone in this struggle. There are always people who are willing to give breast cancer support. All you have to do is know
where to find them, and allow them to help you.